A Butler’s Manor is pleased to introduce a diversified menu of vacation packages and getaways that are romantic and adventuresome – so that you can experience the natural beauty and local flavor of our unique destination on the East End of Long Island.

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Downton Abbey Weekend

Reserve NowCost: $125 per couple + cost of room

We love Downton Abbey and can’t get enough. But how does the story compare to reality in today’s times? Former Butler & Estate Manager Christopher Allen (yes, that would be OUR Chris) will give a talk about what it takes to serve the rich in the latter part of the 20th century and beyond as you enjoy a proper English afternoon tea here at A Butler’s Manor. Also included is admission to Southampton Historical Museum’s exhibit “High Style in the Gilded Age: Southampton, 1870-1930, where you will enjoy comparing how the Earl of Grantham and his family compared to his “peers” on this side of the pond.


Enjoy a special gourmet breakfast each morning (sorry, no kippers), and take home a signed copy of Chris and Kim’s book “A Butler’s Life: Scenes From the Other Side of the Silver Salver” as a souvenir of your weekend!

  • December 13-14, 2019
  • Welcome glass of champagne on arrival
  • Presentation and talk by Christopher Allen on being a butler, and how it compares to life at Downton Abbey
  • Full afternoon tea on Saturday with finger sandwiches, scones, and sweets
  • Admission to “High Style in the Gilded Age” (bonus: See Rogers Mansion decorated for the holidays!)
  • “A Butler’s Life” book, signed by the authors (1 per room)
  • Gourmet breakfast daily
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Reserve NowCost: $65

Anniversary? Promotion? Defended your thesis? Let us help enhance your special celebration! The package includes:

  • Welcome glass of champagne on arrival
  • Fresh flowers with celebratory balloon in your room
  • Complimentary split of champagne
  • Handmade chocolate-dipped strawberries
  • Gift pack of two etched ABM wine glasses
  • Package of a half-dozen of Kim’s Famous Cookies
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Happy Birthday

Reserve NowCost: $45

Add some special touches to your celebration! Our Happy Birthday package includes:

  • Welcome glass of champagne on arrival
  • Homemade jumbo birthday cupcake
  • Fresh flowers with celebratory balloon in your room
  • Gift pack of two etched ABM wine glasses
  • Gift pack of a half-dozen of Kim’s Famous Cookies
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French Picnic

Reserve NowCost: $149

If you thought the Hamptons were all about beach, shopping, and celebrities, here’s a way to find out what else we do well. Explore and enjoy the artistry of three of the Hamptons’ artisanal producers in a way reminiscent of an afternoon in France!

Start with a trip to Duckwalk Wineries where you’ll enjoy a VIP tasting for two with a special cheese platter included. Find a favorite vino? Your certificate is good for 20% off any wine purchase! Then leave the beaten path of Montauk Highway and head south to the ocean breeze-swept farmlands of Sagaponack.


Stop in at Fairview Farm and present your gift certificate good for 1/2 lb. of your choice of handmade Mecox Bay Cheese to enjoy with a baguette from one of our local bakeries.

Bring your victuals back to enjoy at the Manor, or maybe take them off for a picnic on the beach! Ah, a jug of wine…a loaf of bread…and thou! Our package includes:

  • 2 ABM wine glasses
  • ABM laser-etched bamboo cheese board and cheese knife
  • Voucher for VIP wine tasting for 2 at Duckwalk Winery
  • Voucher for ½ lb. Mecox Dairy Cheese at Fairview Farms
  • Baguette
  • Olives
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Southampton Insider's Tour

Reserve NowCost: $100

First trip to the Hamptons? Traveling without a car? We’ll give you our Southampton Insider’s tour of the estate district, beaches and village so you can feel like a local! $100 per couple (kids free, maximum of 2, ages 12-18) includes one-hour tour, commentary, goodie bag with 4 of Kim’s Famous Cookies, 2 bottles of water, 2 bottles of Montauk Tea.

**Tour time must be scheduled in advance. Minimum 2-night stay required***

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Friday Night Date Night

Reserve NowCost: $199 per couple + cost of room

C’mon, admit it: It’s been waaaay too long since you two had a cozy night alone to share dreams instead of schedules, hold hands instead of cellphones. Next Friday night, order the kids a pizza and get away for a night of YOU time! The package includes:

  • Complimentary Early Arrival as early as 1 PM (so you can maximize that time together)
  • Glass of champagne on arrival
  • A bouquet of roses (extra credit: Call or email us in advance and we’ll attach your personal greetings )
  • Yummy dark chocolates
  • $150 voucher for dinner at Plaza Café
  • Gourmet breakfast
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Last Minute Specials

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